After all the madness of the 'silly season', it's hard to believe that today's already the 28th of December and that Christmas day, a day that retailers have been promoting non-stop since mid September already, has all but come and gone too quickly.
This year, Christmas didn't turn out quite how I imagined it would. When I was younger, Christmas was something magical. It was exciting going for an outing to the mall, eating far too much food and opening way too many presents. The days of waking up at 4am and sleeping next to the Christmas tree, of our family getting up early (their 'early' was 8am) to open presents, and of swimming and watching the cricket after lunch, are some of the fondest memories I have of Christmas day.
Someone posted a status on Facebook recently that read, "What does Christmas mean to you?", and it got me thinking. My answer to that question is simple. It's family. Family is what Christmas means to me, family and not much else. Not the presents, not the huge Christmas lunch and certainly not the over-commercialized items in the shopping malls (online shopping next year!). I realise now that I could very well have spent Christmas next to a hospital bed this year.
Though a simple procedure, it definently was a wake up call.
Because of the operation, we weren't able to spend the day with our family as we do every year, and it really made me realise how many small things I'd been taking for granted. Sure, I thank God every day for my family, but I don't say thank you for the small things like having a healthy husband who can look after me, or for having a brother who drives an hour and a half in sweltering heat and holiday traffic just to say 'hi', or for parents who have my back no matter what choices (impulsive or otherwise) I make, or for a Grandmother who I can still talk to about what happened in 7de Laan the other night!
I am truly blessed. Christmas was different this year, but I am very grateful that it was. At the risk of sounding like a cliche, I fully agree with the phrase, "treat each day as a gift". It really and truly is.
Tuesday, December 28, 2010
Sunday, December 19, 2010
One year older, one year wiser?
28. Twenty Eight. Two years to 30. Wow, I feel slightly old today, but at the same time excited about where I am in my life right now, and what's to come.
What a year this has been! Of the three big New Years Resolutions I set out to complete this year, I managed two...not bad.
In short, the first one was deciding by mid year if my small business would take off, or if I would need to go back to full day work again. This was a very hard decision to make. By nature I am somewhat of a risk taker - some may say slightly impulsive - but a dreamer and a thinker of the heart. This time, I had to think with my head. With a heavy heart by August, I knew it was time to close the doors to the little company that I'd started in 2009, and take the next step forward. Funny enough, I ended up applying for a job at my old company, Snowball Effect. Never in a million years did I dream that would happen, but I decided to give it a try - everything for a reason, right? Almost 2 months later, and I'm happy and enjoying what I'm doing. I can't even begin to tell you that it's not the same company I left 3 years ago...everything from the building, the management style, the atmosphere, staff morale and the structure of the company has changed - for the better, and I'm really glad that I made the decision to come back.
Because Geoff and I were now both working in Stellenbosch, it didn't make sense to drive almost 2 hours every day to get to work and home again, so we moved to Somerset West. 15min to work in little traffic....what a pleasure :) We're finally finished unpacking and it really is a cute little house with a view of the mountains in a quiet area, and walking distance to the shops (yay!).
The second big resolution I made was to lose weight. I only made this one up in April, after my sister-in-law "lovingly" (not so much, but a wake up call all the same) tagged a photo of me calling me "vettie". I realised then that I'd really put on a lot of weight, shrugged it off as 'age' and wasn't doing anything about it. Since then, I've started gyming again and eating healthier and lost almost 9kg...and feel great!
The last resolution I'm carrying over to 2011, because with the first two done I'm positive that this time next year I'll be able to check it off as well :)
10 years ago I was going to Matric and had no clue what I'd be doing. Can't say that I saw myself here working at an ISP company, or living in Somerset West, or having opened and closed my own small business...but life is never what you expect it to be, is it? This year has taught me not to take anything for granted - not my health, the car that gets me to where I need to go, the family and people in my life that really matter, or the privilege I have of living in a beautiful place. Looking back, this has been a very eventful year and I'm really looking forward to seeing what 2011 has to offer.
What a year this has been! Of the three big New Years Resolutions I set out to complete this year, I managed two...not bad.
In short, the first one was deciding by mid year if my small business would take off, or if I would need to go back to full day work again. This was a very hard decision to make. By nature I am somewhat of a risk taker - some may say slightly impulsive - but a dreamer and a thinker of the heart. This time, I had to think with my head. With a heavy heart by August, I knew it was time to close the doors to the little company that I'd started in 2009, and take the next step forward. Funny enough, I ended up applying for a job at my old company, Snowball Effect. Never in a million years did I dream that would happen, but I decided to give it a try - everything for a reason, right? Almost 2 months later, and I'm happy and enjoying what I'm doing. I can't even begin to tell you that it's not the same company I left 3 years ago...everything from the building, the management style, the atmosphere, staff morale and the structure of the company has changed - for the better, and I'm really glad that I made the decision to come back.
Because Geoff and I were now both working in Stellenbosch, it didn't make sense to drive almost 2 hours every day to get to work and home again, so we moved to Somerset West. 15min to work in little traffic....what a pleasure :) We're finally finished unpacking and it really is a cute little house with a view of the mountains in a quiet area, and walking distance to the shops (yay!).
The second big resolution I made was to lose weight. I only made this one up in April, after my sister-in-law "lovingly" (not so much, but a wake up call all the same) tagged a photo of me calling me "vettie". I realised then that I'd really put on a lot of weight, shrugged it off as 'age' and wasn't doing anything about it. Since then, I've started gyming again and eating healthier and lost almost 9kg...and feel great!
The last resolution I'm carrying over to 2011, because with the first two done I'm positive that this time next year I'll be able to check it off as well :)
10 years ago I was going to Matric and had no clue what I'd be doing. Can't say that I saw myself here working at an ISP company, or living in Somerset West, or having opened and closed my own small business...but life is never what you expect it to be, is it? This year has taught me not to take anything for granted - not my health, the car that gets me to where I need to go, the family and people in my life that really matter, or the privilege I have of living in a beautiful place. Looking back, this has been a very eventful year and I'm really looking forward to seeing what 2011 has to offer.
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